It is a brand new year, and we are committed to providing helpful Relationships information and tips on how to live better in the society that we envisaged and are building.
In light of the above, we are still focused on ensuring that we address how we relate with each other, because we deem that crucial.
Recall that in the previous conversation, we discussed the crucial roles communication play in relationships and we are so much confident that if the suggestions provided are followed, our relationships will flourish.
So, for today, we are going to focus on some of the reasons why relationships fail.
It is no doubt that there are a number of reasons why partnerships fail to last. Relationships fail for a variety of reasons, including a lack of trust, poor communication, a lack of respect, a difference in priorities, and a lack of intimacies.
Nonetheless, in today’s conversation, we are going to be focusing on what a resource person told us.
Miss Jennifer Onahi Oga shared her thoughts with us in an exclusive interview. So, today is a presentation of her ideas.
Relationships, according to Miss Jennifer, “are an integral part of human existence and the failure or success of different forms of relationship would affect different aspects of our lives.”
It’s true that a lot of people think about relationships first in the light of their emotions and feel a need to differentiate between this form of relationship and other types but in the crux of human relationships one would find that relationship success and failure is dependent on almost the same principles”, she continued.
So, having said that, she went further to enumerate some of the reasons she feels relationships would fail.
For Jennifer, the first cause of relationship failure is poor communication:
Relationships themselves begin and kick start because of one form of communication or another and for it to work, the parties involved must take it seriously. So, poor communication leads to misinterpretation and misunderstandings, which will eventually lead to a termination of such a relationship.
She submitted that a divergent interest could lead to the failure of a relationship. For her, one of the reasons for a relationship is the similarity of interest. If two parties in a relationship have a huge difference in their interest and are unable to harmonize this aspect of their relationship, you would find that such a relationship would have no purpose or anything to look forward to. There would be no harmonizing factor in such a relationship and such a relationship will not go the distance.
Sometimes a person could get irritated by the other party, but for the sake of their harmonized purpose and interests, the irritated party would look past the flaws of the other individual and the relationship would continue.
As you all know, we are not interested in boring our audience with theories. The reason for our continual conversation on critical societal issues is for a purpose of correcting the abnormalities in the society.
Yes, Miss Jennifer has said all that is needed to be said, but infidelity, jealousy, lying, possessiveness, and lack of respect are also reasons for the failure of relationships.
The only admonition for today is, ensure you know what the people that you are in a relationship with dislike and strive as much as you can to avoid these dislikes. If you can do that, you will see that your relationship will go a long way and your relationship will not fail.
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